Thursday, October 1, 2015

Oh how the time has flown by.  This handsome man is now 13, looks like he's 17 and makes me so very proud to be a mom.  I love every last thing about him.  He's such a joy to my heart.  I'm so proud of his drive, his dedication to everything he attempts.  It's so exciting watching him grow, but please slow time down as my heart is not ready to let him become a man quite yet.

Tuesday, February 24, 2015


Lord where has the time gone?  The Phifer-McQueen home is doing well.  Trayjan is an all star at about everything in life.....Basketball, Baseball, Football....the kid truly is a gifted young man.  Towering his mom at about 5'7" at age 12, he's going to be a tall young man soon.  Jie is doing great, her favorite things currently would be Art, she has the best hand writing which is so amazing to us with all her difficulties she has faced with her hands/arms.  God truly has her little talents in his hands.   Both children are doing amazing in school and I couldn't be more proud of them.  Tony is an awesome Stepfather and the kids adore him.  We truly have so many blessings and hope to post more soon.  God Bless all.  We have missed all of you.

Chasity, Tony, Trayj and Jie

Friday, October 19, 2012

These smiles just melt my heart.  I absolutely am head over heals in love with these two beauties.  My life would mean nothing without their love.  This was such a wonderful little weekend.  The kids and I had the pool to ourselves and enjoyed every minute with eachother.  Trayjan is such a wonderful teacher and by the final swim Jie was swimming the entire length of the pool alone.  She works so hard and we are so proud of her.  She can only swim under water due to her arms, but this little princess has it down to a science.  Trayjan's swimming is amazing.  I love watching him, he is a beautiful swimmer.  That boy makes me so proud every day. 

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Where have we been?

The Kids have been doing wonderful.  Trayjan is now in the 4th grade, in the Alpha program for the second year.   He took a trip to D.C last year for Alpha.  He is so intelligent and I'm so proud of how he is doing.  He loves to learn and has been on the All A's Honor Roll for 3 years.  I love that amazing Boy so much!!!!
Jie started all day kindergarten this year.  She had a bit of difficulty with not talking in class, but since addressing the issue has done remarkably well.  She loves to learn and currently her speech is sounding out every word in a sentence.  So proud of her.  She adores her family but mostly I think she's head over heals in love with her brother.  She wants to be with him always and will play whatever he would like just to be involved .  The kids are both healthy and doing wonderfully.  Jie is taking a dance class and Trayj is currently pitching in Fall Baseball.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Halloween 2011 Fun

The kids were alot of fun this year trick or treating with their cousins. Trayjan was a Zombie once again and Jie has to copy everything her brother does (when she gets by with it), so she was a Zombie Crosseyed Trayjan decided he was going to be a Zombieland Zombie and I was supposed to be a Ninja Zombie. I really enjoyed spending Halloween with them. It is Trayjan's favorite Holiday, he absolutely loves for us all to dress up and it is such a joy to enjoy his excitement.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Enjoying our daily lives

I guess my average post is about every six months. The kids are doing wonderful. Trayj is playing traveling Baseball and recently was promoted to Blue Belt in Karate as well as earned a National title in Self Defense in Karate. He is in the Alpha program at school and is making straight A's. We are so very proud of him. He's an amazing boy. He is so funny and makes me laugh every day. My favorite thing about him is he's confident and loving. He hugs me so much and it melts my heart everytime he does. My cup runneth over : )

Jie is doing wonderful. She is in a daily pre-k class and loves school. She is not only a little princess, but seems to be pretty tough compared to most little girls. We are working on her to toughen up (Trayj and I). She is so sweet and loving. She reminds me everyday life is about the little things. I love seeing the world through a childs eyes. She tells me she wants her hair to grow as long as Tangled's hair. I said ummmmm I don't think so, but you can grow it a little longer. She is excited to get her ears peirced for her birthday in January.

Monday, January 17, 2011


It has been insane......I can not believe I havent made a post since August 2010. So much has happened in the last 6 months. Both kids are doing well. Trayjan is currently playing on a traveling basketball team and loves it. It's a bit more aggressive of a team then he's used to, but he's doing well. He really enjoyes it. Jie just advised me she wants to Cheerleading, thankfully we know a great Cheerleading Coach and hope to get her involved in Cheer/Gymnastics, I think she will build a great deal of strength in her arms and she is a little flipster, she will love it.

This December was a bit emotional for us....(well for me, mostly, haha). The kids and I traveled to Marion to visit our favorite light show. This has been tradition since Trayjan was 5 months old. It brought many memories back and I'm so thankful we didn't not go, just becuase life is different for us. The kids loved it and we all chose new favorite light displays. The kids absolutely loved seeing all the displays. It was truly a wonderful memory we will always keep with us.